Post by rwley on Sept 30, 2008 9:18:10 GMT -5
I know many of you on this board are parents, and it is you I turn to now. My oldest son, 27 years old, so he's old enough to know better, is proving once again that his decision making process is suspect at best. He has put himself in a situation that is borderline criminal and I can't and won't do anything to help him. I'm not even completely sure where he is right now, although I've heard from a couple of third parties on his location. He's not thinking straight, I do know that. He lost his job, skipped out on his rent and his lease and left town. I don't know how because he doesn't have a car. His brother sort of talked to him last Friday, but got no information, just a cussing out.
To say the least, I'm worried. I haven't been able to talk to him, so I have no way to judge his state of mind. At best, David doesn't usually show great amounts of common sense, and when he's angry and hurt, even less.
Don't get me wrong, I love my son very much. But he really doesn't have the sense God gave a flea. He doesn't think, he reacts. He makes rash decision with no though to consequence or cost. Everything is an emotional, selfish response. Everything he does is centered on himself and he's never to blame for anything that goes wrong.
I did not raise him to think this way. I know I taught him better, so there is something deeper going on that I can't fix. He has to be accountable for his own actions and his own decisions and I don't know where that's going to end up.
I know that only God can help him. I also know that he doesn't want God's help.
Please help me pray for may son. He's hurt, he's angry, and he's lost.
Thanks.
Robi
To say the least, I'm worried. I haven't been able to talk to him, so I have no way to judge his state of mind. At best, David doesn't usually show great amounts of common sense, and when he's angry and hurt, even less.
Don't get me wrong, I love my son very much. But he really doesn't have the sense God gave a flea. He doesn't think, he reacts. He makes rash decision with no though to consequence or cost. Everything is an emotional, selfish response. Everything he does is centered on himself and he's never to blame for anything that goes wrong.
I did not raise him to think this way. I know I taught him better, so there is something deeper going on that I can't fix. He has to be accountable for his own actions and his own decisions and I don't know where that's going to end up.
I know that only God can help him. I also know that he doesn't want God's help.
Please help me pray for may son. He's hurt, he's angry, and he's lost.
Thanks.
Robi